A clever man learns from his own mistakes, but a wise man learns from others’ mistakes. That’s what they say, and any employee with sense follows this principle. We all make some mistakes, but the fewer you make the better.
It sounds good, doesn’t it? However, you can’t just have the odd catchy quote up your sleeve. You have to really do this stuff. That means that every time someone near you messes up, you need to know all about it. You’ll have to do your detective work, subtly mind you. No one wants to be cross examined by a colleague about where they went wrong, and there’s a danger of coming across as smug and self-satisfied and nosy and condescending because it wasn’t you who made the mistake, and that is definitely not a smart behavior.
Once you’ve found out just what went wrong, work out how and why it happened. Then be brutally honest with yourself about whether you could have made the same mistake. Have you ever been in a hurry and failed to double-check the paperwork? Or forgotten to check your voice mail at the end of the day? Or negotiated on the basis of figures you took as right but could actually have been inaccurate? Or written down the wrong delivery date in your diary? If so, you need to devise some kind of system now to make sure it can’t happen in the future; otherwise it’s only a matter of time before you make the same mistake. And remember, if you’ve already witnessed your colleague getting it wrong, you’ll look even worse when it subsequently happens to you.
Over time, you’ll find that a thorough and inquiring attitude to other people’s mistakes, rather than a complacent, “It won’t happen to me” approach, will more than pay off. And the fewer mistakes you make, the more you’ll impress the boss. It’s as simple as that.